Thanks To American Airlines, I learned An Important Lesson About Gratitude

Last week, both social media and the local news reported that American Airlines had to cancel thousands of flights unexpectedly. A lot of people were left to sleep in airports, or had to wait for hours until a different flight was available. Lo and behold, I was one of those people. I was flying back from a […]

10 Bad B*tch Affirmations To Get Us Through The Summer

To fully maximize the good vibes I’m feeling right now, I’m currently in the process of retraining my brain. Generally, I would like to think of myself as a positive person, but I am prone to overthinking. A lot.  So, this usually causes me to talk myself out of stepping out on faith and trying […]

How To Cool Down When The Bedroom Is Heating Up

I don’t know about you, friend, but I love having sex — and I hate being hot. But alas, summer is naturally a sexy time of the year. From everyone being in their swimsuits, rooftop brunches, and men having the audacity to come out the house looking like thots in their gray shorts… it’s hard […]

Check On Me Tonight! It’s Time For A Mid-Year Review

It’s June y’all! I cannot believe we are already halfway through the year! Personally, this year is going a lot smoother than 2020— however, we all have still dealt with our fair share of bullshit.  Since it’s the middle of the year, it’s a good time to check in with yourself and where you stand […]

How to Give Yourself a Spiritual Bath

As I have increased my time at home, I often find myself searching for a comfortable area to relax and decompress. One of the best places that I’ve been able to do this ⁠— and also disconnect⁠ from social media and technology⁠ — is by having a spiritual bath. When most people think of a […]

We Outside! 5 Ways To Have The Best Hot Girl Summer In 2021

Summer 2021 is swiftly approaching!  The girls are getting waxed, vaxxed, and it’s getting harder to secure a spot for brunch! After the train wreck that was 2020, we all deserve to have a little fun. And let’s face it, 2021 hasn’t been very nice to us either. So, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with craving […]

Because I Got High: Confronting the Realities of My Cannabis Addiction

Me to myself: Hello, my name is Simone and I’ve been misusing cannabis to cure my anxiety. I’m ready to get to know the new/old me.  Myself back to me: Heyyyy girl! Nice to meet you! This process is going to be hard, but it’s necessary! You a baddie by the way. Give yourself some grace. I […]

Taking a Pole Class Boosted My Bad-Bitch Energy to the Next Level

Here’s Why it Will Boost Yours as well Taking a pole class has never been an activity that I thought I would find myself invested in this year. Of course, I love watching the hit shows that have the dance as a central theme like P-Valley. And I’d occasionally imagine myself in another dimension being […]

Take What You Want (Except For My Closet) But Leave My Candles & Plants

As a fairly new plant mom, I’ve come to realize that few things in the world bring me as much joy as my candles and my plants.  Now, I know the title of this piece says “except for my closet”, and that’s because my clothes and shoes are the greatest expressions of my spirit and […]

Why Skincare is my Favorite Form of Self Care

Skincare has, hands down, become one of my favorite forms of self-care. Whether it be my daily face skin routine or my weekly face mask, skincare has remained one of my favorite self-care forms to implement. I’m not sure if it’s because of consistency or that I feel completely relaxed as I give my skin […]